Today was a big day for us. The home study has been on my mind for a very long time. If anything, it's one way to get my house completely cleaned, de-cluttered and organized. Which is what I spent the last month doing. I might have gone a little over kill... maybe. But all in good reason and it needed to be done, for my sake anyway. I will say that we have an amazing Social Worker and she made us feel completely at ease. Gabe really liked her too, which is always a good thing.
For those of you who may not know what a home study is, it is an assessment of prospective adoptive parents to see if they are suitable for adopting a child. But I like how my social worker explained it to Gabe. She said that she was there to write down our family's story and then share it to birth moms so that we can bring home our baby.
We were very eager to sit down and talk with our social worker. She wanted us to give her a tour of our home and then we sat down and talked about us, our family, our upbringing, adoption, birth mothers, placement, bringing our baby home... etc. It was really nice and I stressed myself out way more than I needed to. I'm glad it is over and done with because that means that we are one step closer to getting our baby. Next step is to finish all our paperwork and send it in to our Agency. My deadline for that is the end of December. I will be glad to get that part of the process done.
We are getting more excited every day about meeting our little one. We are praying for our birth mom every morning and night. We pray that she will find the peace and comfort she needs as she is going through this hard experience. We are hoping that she is praying to find us. We love her and we are grateful for the selfless choice she has decided to make. Words really cant express the emotion I personally feel for her. She is so wonderful and we cant wait to meet her.
Home study... Done!! One more thing to check off our list.